How do I scale the photo so that the door in the photo is 36" wide and all other object are in scale.
To scale any image in Illy, first you have to KNOW the actual currant scale, to find that out, you use the Measure Tool (located with the Eye Dropper Tool), hold your mouse button down on the Eye Dropper Tool, and the Measure Tool will be accessible.
Using the Measure Tool, select a known point on the door in the photo, and drag the tool across to the other known point of the photo, holding down the shift key will keep your measurement horizontal (I do this all the time). The measurement will be displayed in the INFO window. You are selecting the two know points (36" wide) on the door.
To make sure you are going to end up with a true scale image, you need to make sure of the actual points on the door that are 36" wide, and use the same reference points to scale from.
Now that you now the exact dimension of you on screen image, using a calculator, divide 36" by whatever dimension you got using your Measure Tool. This will give you a magnification factor for enlarging your image to a full size of 36" wide.
Next step, double click on the Scale Tool and input your magnification factor into the SCALE window and click ok, the image should be enlarged very close to the FULL scale of 36" wide.
Sometimes, when rounding off the decimals for the magnification factor your image may not be exactly 36", that's ok, just do both procedures one more time and you can get it sized to EXACTLY 36" wide.
I often make my own full size templates, I tape a know sized object in the photo, in your case, I would have placed a 36" yellow metal yard stick on the actual door, stepped way, way back away from the door, so not to get distortion, snapped a photo straight onto to subject. later when i load the image into illy or PS, I scale on the screen using the Measure Tool, follow the above procedure, and I'm able to get a full size image very close to exact size.
Good luck