Our city has a small Catholic Charity Center. All donations whether it be food, clothes, or money is used at this center and no where else. Everyday just before meal times, the needy/homeless will start gathering outside the center.
If you have one in your area, might want to check it out and make sure all donations are staying "home" and used there.
The questions came up about only donating this time of year. We get about 2 to 3 calls a day wanting some kind of donation this time of year. Everything from bikes to coats to money. Seems like it never ends until a few days before Christmas. We never donate to the phone solicitors. Some angency from Florida calling representing the WV State Police wanting a monetary donation just doesn't sit well with me.
One year I worked in a food pantry during the Holidays. We had a buffet of sorts set up so the needy could just walk along the tables and pick out what they needed. Canned goods, dry goods, and at the end of the table was their choice of a ham or turkey. A lady with a couple of kids came in and made her way down the table. As she picked out her goods, I was putting them in a box. We get to the end of the table and all the hams were gone. Turkey was her only choice. She complained a little, but took the turkey.
I offered to carry the box of goods out to her car. When I get there, the car was running and the windows were steamed up. Her husband was sitting in the car waiting for her. He pops the trunk open for me to put the box in, then starts yelling at her because she got a turkey instead of the ham. As I shut the trunk and I was walking back to the building, I could hear him still b!tching about the turkey.
So sometimes it doesn't matter who you help out or to what organizations you donate , as long you feel you've helped a needy person out is the main thing.
Dave