At least for offset printing I would never give a process color when a client requested a spot. I would offer to build the spot, and ask why the spot is needed and not a process color. However, in my slice of the world if a client knows the difference, generally there is a reason. Years ago we designed tickets for the PBR... most of the graphics were normal CMYK process. However, they were incredibly picky about the corporate colors, and would specify spot PMS colors for their logo. You cannot accurately reproduce a spot color on a CMYK machine... you can simulate a lot of spot colors on a CMYK machine, and even more on the machines that have more inks than just CMYK for processing - but any process printing of inks to build colors will have a significant amount of colors that are simply outside the color gamut of the process.... (try producing a Reflex Blue on your process device - CMYK cannot reproduce the Reflex color. If your client has a logo that has Reflex Blue, or a mix that has a high amount of Reflex, AND a customer that wants exact color matching, you will have to use a device or method that will allow for true spot color printing - either a dedicated channel in the print-head or a custom made vinyl (there are too many ways to put pigment on substrate to cover all...))