I don't get it.
When we buried my dad 10 years ago, the funeral director was really nice, he started talking about people who wanted the best of everything for their loved ones, and he would politely explain to them, that basically, its a waist of $, but they don't want to hear it.
I guess some people believe the more they spend the more they are showing their love?
Grind me up and feed me to the dogs.