I answered my own question in preparation to make this post - but I'm posting it anyway LOL
I got a problem now with a pissed off customer. He basically threatened me in Spring to be a sponsor of his Walleye tournament or he would take his business elsewhere. I had my name on the shirts, I donated my labor for the shirts, ordered bags at cost, gave a couple Carhartts, made a banner. To his credit, he did a great job advertising the sponsors - but who cares? I'm busy and can't keep up so not really in need of an advertising campaign. He came in Thursday and not only did he assume I was going to sponsor again, he said another shirt shop wants to go in on the shirts. I said, no thanks, she can just do the shirts and have her name only on them. He did NOT like that. Then he comes at me with "I'm a coach at S.H. baseball diamond, I'm going to start selling the 4x8 signs for $1200 on the baseball fence. If you give us $1200 of free labor and materials I'll put a sign up for you for free." (so basically, $2400) - I laughed and said my son played there and I spent 15 years donating, so I'm not interested. Then he said, "Looks like you're all caught up here, I was just by Sara's shop and she's swamped. Do you know if the other sign shop in S.N. does those signs?" - Friends - I almost lost my SH*T. Then he went on bragging about how he donates roofs, bleachers, all this crap - good for you - you own a roofing company and have 30 employees - you are running a muti-million-dollar company!
Bottom line - he's 6% of my business with most of that in 2023 - minus the sponsorship - so not a huge loss after I sat down and did the math. He sent 2 other fishermen to me to do $520 of boat decals and they BOTH asked me to donate to their stupid tournaments too!
I'm here to make money. I'm not here to save the world. My donations thus far have revolved around my kids activities and some cancer benefit type stuff, churches and Veterans often get a discount or some freebies. I'm a single woman with a part time employee - you can all make an educated guess on how much I make per year. I'm not raking in millions.
The answer to my question is I'm going to tell him to pound sand. If the other sign shops want to get involved with all this donating to HIS favorite benefits - they can have his business! Am I wrong????