WildWestDesigns
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Tx, you said you went to a rough school? You know as well as I that the character of a person is partially intrinsic but also developed by experiences. Homeschooling doesnt allow for this, even with social interactions, it is controlled and pointed in the direction you want. IMO, being able to succeed and be productive in an environment that is not hand picked makes for a much easier transition into adulthood. Everyone wants the best for our kids but I dont think sheltering them from reality is in their best interest.
Your making some assumptions about the environments there. How things are done in school are not the same as they were when I went into school.
Everyone gets a participation ribbon, no real 1st places. Shoot, I remember the teacher used to call out your name with your grade on a test (or at bare minimum call out your name and a range of what you might have made; "These are the kids that made an "A", "B" etc"). Don't do that anymore as that may "psychologically" damage the kid.
It's just not the same. Schools nowadays are just a glorified babysitting service and I fail to see how that is going to be teaching them to be successful in life. That and the BS politics that's going on, that's a lot of irrelevant static.
This reminds me a bit of how we now treat bullying. Its not right but trying to bury it is not doing any children any favors. It is part of developing coping skills. You cant stop bullys in adult life. Its better that you learn to deal with them early on.
I agree here, bullying, peer pressure etc, but I honestly don't think we ever handled that right and we aren't always considering every avenue that a bully has to a kid nowadays.
Then, of course, you have some teachers that believe in the "boys will be boys" sentiment and knew and let happen some pretty horrible things (and this was in a private HS as well).