I thought about this last night Firesprint and I have to tell you a funny story! A friend/acquaintance offered to help me one Friday set-up my in-store spirit store - for free, no pay as she "works from home" Mondays and Fridays and is getting paid anyway. We had a nice time, it was an especially busy period for me with school starting. LOTS of parents in and out, school administrators, business people, etc. She was LOVING being right there in the excitement, talking to all the "important people". It was a big help on top of my normal work load to have someone else there checking people out. It wasn't uncommon for me to have 5-10 people standing there needing help. The overflow ended...but she didn't stop coming in...and then the gossiping started...and the nosing around...and the telling me how to run my business. I don't gossip about my customers, I never tell anyone about bad customers, late payments, etc. It's very unprofessional. Once she stated questioning why a couple invoices were two months old and if they were in trouble with their business or what...that was a red flag.
It's pretty clear the ONLY reason she is coming in is to "rub elbows" and get the gossip. Point in case. I had told her two Fridays in a row when she showed up (without me asking) that I didn't need her help. She seemed to get the point. Then she showed up again yesterday. I told her again, it's Friday, I just need to get my computer stuff done, run some errands, box some stuff up and I'm heading out. As she's out the door, holding it, the booster club gal walks in - she turned around, walked back into the shop and sat there the entire time until she left. Of course this woman had some gossip, which I will NOT repeat but I'm sure my "employee" will. Then she told me, "WOW, you are going need my help with that order, I'll be here next Monday and Friday!" I told her no three times...three times she told me "an extra set of hands and eyes is always needed!" and walked out the door.
So here I have a case where someone is so desperate to rub-elbows and learn some gossip that she is willing to work for FREE. Can you even believe this? I don't care what anyone says, this type of employee, free or not is not the right fit for a small business. I will begin the termination process Monday if she shows up.