How is that insulting ?? I know several jose's and that's just a fact of life.
As for meeting mensa people, maybe you weren't impressed cause you had no idea what they were thinking or saying.
As for me, I'm still sticking to dumb looks and stares from everyone..... including those self proclaimed smart people. They're only smart if you engage with them and give them credit for being smart, but not well endowed in the common sense department.