There's two kinds of smart. Either you are book smart or hand smart. In my family, you get picked on if you are book smart. My Dad thought my sister and I were boys so we can stud walls, drywall, lay carpet, etc. My poor brother in law...he is super book smart but can't use a hammer, can't even start the lawnmower without us facetiming him directions. He gets picked on so bad, it's hard for us to believe he can be so stupid. But get him talking about the stock market and WE are the stupid ones.