bob
It's better to have two hands than one glove.
Some people just cant keep their negative opinions to themselves.
And others manage to manufacture negativity where none exists. Much like racism except that category has professional practitioners creating that condition for any situation which disturbs their delicate sensibilities and apparently making a living at it. You might have someone explain to you the difference between negativity and critique. Ask them to speak slowly and use words with few syllables.
Do you advocate a Pollyannaesque existence lurching through life pounding sunshine up as many orifices as possible?