You asked for help. Ya like mine.... use it. Ya don't like mine.... don't use it.
Fairly simple. I don't care what you do, I gave suggestions to a situation you brought up. Perhaps you don't like my ideas or examples, but someone else.... might like them, so please, don't take things so personally.
Try to remember that this is a pretty big place with literally thousands of eyes reading, soaking up information...... good stuff, lousy stuff and funny stuff. This conversation is between you, me and the others taking part presently, but down the road, the same audience won't be here, so people will probably read this with altogether different outcomes if we wouldn't muddy the waters with selfless acts of pity, which sets the pace. No harm meant towards you, but many people get frustrated with direct hits and sometimes, that's what's needed to get things across. For me, I don't display tact very well, but my intentions are not to hurt, but help and get to the nitty-gritty quickly and as precisely as I can.
Here's one for ya..... if we were all in the same room talking at once..... everybody would call it brainstorming or some other neat term. Good stuff, bad stuff would be flying around the room for minutes or hours until it was figured out. Now, unless someone starts getting rattled personally, the outcome will probably be very successful.
So, please don't take these things as personal attacks.
They aren't. What you really need to do is learn who is serving up the crap and make sure they are speaking from wisdom, experience or out their bunghole.
After doing this stuff for 40 years, some things come into full sight instantly and it's always easier to tell someone else how to do something and maybe not even follow your own advice.
Take care, it'll all come together and then you'll go...... dam*, that was easier than I thought.