This movie is not for younger people...
The Crying Game
An unlikely kind of friendship develops between Fergus, an Irish Republican Army volunteer, and Jody, a kidnapped British soldier lured into an IRA trap by Jude, another IRA member. When the hostage-taking ends up going horribly wrong, Fergus escapes and heads to London, where he seeks out Jody's lover, a hairdresser named Dil. Fergus adopts the name "Jimmy" and gets a job as a day laborer. He also starts seeing Dil, who knows nothing about Fergus' IRA background. But there are some things about Dil that Fergus doesn't know, either...
A fascinating look at the psychology of captor-hostage relationships, this movie will fool you in the direction you think its going, for there comes a moment of truth that is so startling and compelling as to elicit (sometimes extreme) involuntary physical reactions from the viewer. Do not assume this reaction will necessarily be a good thing.
So, I suggest then, that the recommendation of this movie be left to those whom annoy you -- unfortunately, you'll have to see it yourself to fully appreciate what this means.
Forewarned is not necessarily forearmed.
Heh, heh...
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