Well, maybe she hates you, too...... and doesn't want to pose for you because she feels your contempt.............. Not all kids like posing for their Daddy.... especially when she feels you're going to put them on the internet
No, only kidding. Guess you just ought to be satisfied with the pictures you're getting from the babysitter. She'll come around when she wants to.
Don't worry about the looks. Looks aren't everything, it's what's inside that really counts. Teach her right from wrong and she'll most likely stay out of dangerous situations and.........
carry.