I know I have friends on here who will shoot straight with me, so here goes. My daughter is engaged and her wedding date is still 9 weeks away. For the past 3 or 4 months her fiance has been here EVERY day of the week from just before supper time til around 9pm. We gained another mouth to feed - even when we go out to eat. I like this guy a great deal, but am beginning to wonder why he can't live a day without seeing my daughter. When I was engaged there was no way the guy who became my father in law would have put up with me being over every day - and honestly, I had friends I liked spending time with occasionally. This guy abandoned all his friends when he got engaged to my daughter. They never go to his house because my daughter is not too fond of her soon to be father in law. From cell phone records, we know our daughter has been texting another guy she graduated with quite a bit from after 10pm til up to 2am. My wife asked her a few days ago what she loves about her fiance. Her hesitant answers were not what you would expect from a woman who is going to marry the guy in a few months. I don't know what to think or do about this. Maybe I AM too old to remember what it was like to be in that phase of love where the hormones raged and you needed to be together all the time... but I'm beginning to think my daughter is feeling trapped in something she can't change now. I find it strange she is texting an old guy friend an hour after her fiance leaves. She and this guy almost were together at one time. His mom and my wife are friends so we know this guy is devastated that Kait is getting married. In fact, he's deeply depressed about it. I can't imagine what he and Kait are talking about. Like I said - I have no idea what I can do here - if anything. I don't want to bring anything up that would cause my daughter (and future son in law) to resent me. But man, I'd really enjoy at least one night without him here! Any suggestions?