no worries...
it sounded like you might fear the fact that the internet is a public place.
A lot of us have seen how that can come back and bite us... so my business name is no longer my username here & my logo (containing my name) is no longer in my avatar, or my signature...
I can't get the full value of this place without revealing this sort of information from time to time, (which I think will be true for you too) ...but I'm liking not having it constantly available on every post I make.
I think you will benefit from asking yourself those questions (plus the 20 more on my blog) even if you don't post the answers... but for people to give you the best help (& for the significant benefits usually seen here when folks asking for help, also show us the work they are doing to help themselves) I think it will be worth posting as much of that kind of info as you can without privacy concerns.