It thru me off that this company would require all the fonts as what on earth would they need them for as I have all ready set all the copy
Happens all the time. They ask for the fonts because they do not wish to be trapped in to a mess when or if you move on. They are assuming that you will supply the fonts and have charged accordingly. OR the font is converted, or they ask for a list fonts used.
All to often as of late, too much material is slung together by a clerk typist who has no idea,,, so whe client opens a file,,, and do not own that font,,, their system will substitute and thus display wrong. Its not a matter of wanting the fonts. Its a matter of wanting to display their written materials properly.
Amateur website designers make this mistake all to often too. They design a fancy website using an exotic font. Then find out later that too many other computers will not display the website as designed.
All of this font thing is confused by software that "collects for transport". Your software collects every thing including fonts into one file for transfer to your production house. Some places require this collected file and will not proceed unless they have the fonts too.
Good luck.