Some people learn with an iron fist, rather than having everything sugar-coated.
When you were in school and you couldn't add 2 + 2.... did your teacher say good try Addie..... when you came up with 3... or did she tell you to do more homework and learn your tables ??
Ya wanna be thinned skinned ?? Go to a hobbyist forum and hang out with them for a while.
Very true. Unfortunately, there are a couple that aren't saying study up more on this or that, they say hire someone else.
That would be like, to use your example, instead of the teacher saying to learn your tables, they say hire a mathematician.
Now, having said that, not everyone is cut out for whatever they are trying to do, I'm not trying to say that. However, I do believe that there needs to be constructive criticism. How many here weren't perfect when they started? How many here understudied and learned by practice? I for one wasn't someone that just got it, and trust me, I've had a lot of designs ripped up and I'm still no where near the level that quite a few are here, but just saying to hire someone doesn't help me be a better designer. Now if I've peaked as a designer that's one thing, but as long as you keep on learning, it'll be very hard to peak.
I really don't care if you call my design a worthless piece of shit, but tell me why it is and if I'm serious about being a better designer I'll do my best to correct that mistake. If I don't get it, then I don't get it; I haven't had that happen yet though I can say.
Now I'm not saying that anyone here has said things like that to me(except one person alluded to such things, but never stated why, so I don't know if they were just being a horse's ass to a newbie or not), I'm just going by how I would approach the situation if it directly affected me. Unlike quite a few of y'all that had natural talent, I had to learn everything by having my art ripped a part by people, but they always gave me hints(look at color, layout, weight etc) and I would like to think I've gotten better. If I had people only telling me to hire a "professional", I wouldn't have advanced at all. I might even get to the point of earning the monikar of "artist", but I have to work every single time I go to do something as I have to get over the hump of not being naturally inclined.