I like the single sided tape, but keep in mind, I've found it to be weaker than a tape/folded hem (as opposed to a single sided banner tape and grommet). Wind tunnel tested or not, I can still rip the grommet out of the single sided tape side over the tape/fold side every time. I can typically do it twice before the folded side fails. I got the idea from the Banner Up samples that you try to rip the grommet out. Cut the non-reinforced grommet off, tape and fold that edge, put a grommet in it. Put a grommet in the hole they punched in their tab. You'll likely rip the tabbed grommet out on every single one. If you don't do the grommet in the tab, it's not even a competition.
Single Sided Tape and the tabs are only stronger than grommets in an unfinished edge. So when a customer says they need something quick and cheap, that's what they'll get. If they need it to last a bit longer, outside, we'll do the tape/fold.
As for the wrinkles, you could be stretching the tape while the banner is relaxed. So when the tape is applied, it's scrunching the banner up. Then when you fold, it just amplifies that wrinkle. I've seen some of my guys apply tape and you could see the space between the tape and banner before they applied pressure. No good.