:Oops: Kaiser.... didn't really mean to rile you up from so far away.
While reading this essay, I find where you are actually agreeing with what I and many others here are saying, but then you contradict yourself and go the other way. Perhaps it's the language barrier where, while some people speak and converse in a second, third or as your case a fourth language, they don't always fully understand when they say something, it might translate a little differently.
My main point being... throughout your whole post, you cling to one character trait in your own make-up 100%. That is, you never gave up and kept working and bettering yourself. That's exactly what I'm saying. The courage and hardships it takes to constantly make yourself a better person from within as well as with your friends and business associates is what [at least in this country] don't have. Here, they demand what others have just for the sake of..... THEY WANT IT. Do they deserve it ?? Not from a capability or knowledge point of view, but they still want it. Do they need it to live within their means. No, not at all, because almost every one one of them, completely the opposite of you.... live far beyond their wants and put their needs second.
You said having food and a roof over your head were essential. Not in our country. The [let's call them the gimme's] want television, latest phone set ups, cigarettes, booze, sometimes dope, fun times, a loud low car, fashionable clothes, fancy fingernails, dyed hair, pets and the list goes on. Does any of that include necessary clothes for a kid, food, heat, being responsible for paying their own bills or overhead ?? Now, before you say, if they made more, they could do it..... look at yourself. Doesn't matter where in the world you are..... priorities are priorities. You make them from choices. Your choices happened to be the hard way and you scratched and clawed your way up the ladder the hard way. Should everyone have to work to further themselves ?? Yes. The hard way ?? NO. But you play the cards you've been dealt in a responsible way and others will help you every step along the way, until they do, just like you.
I was born into a family where having or owning a business was unheard of. I was taught to work everything and anything that came down the pike and to the best of my ability. I had the oppurtunity to go to college through scholarships and some grants. My parents couldn't afford it, but they helped wherever they could.
I've been working odd jobs from 15¢ an hour shoveling snow and cutting grass to 75¢ ah hour working my first full-time job. I worked two and three jobs to do what I wanted in/out of life. I eventually played in bands [musical groups] and made the best money there in the late 60's into the early 80's. During that time, I was working close to 15 hours a day. Not much time for sleep or getting things done, but I managed to have fun and enjoy everything I did, just like you...... and ya know what, I still enjoy my job, family and life to it's fullest.
So Kaiser, like I said before, I don't begrudge anyone flipping burgers, cleaning the toilets at a department store or someone waving $1,000 bills in my face. I am responsible for what I, me & myself do and I pray to God, my wife is with me 100%.
If someone wants $15. an hour to flip a burger.....more power to them if they get it, but I still think it's wrong trying to gyp in line.
In case that doesn't make sense..... you're standing in a long line waiting your turn to get into a movie theater. Maybe 75 people in front of you. Some people come up and stand in front of you because they know someone in line. Now you're back at 80 behind. A minute later, some more BIG guys get in line in front of you and everyone lets them in because they don't want any trouble. Now you're at 85. A little later 10 girls go up front and the usher let's them in. Now you're at 95. Get a load of this..... there's only 100 tickets. Where at one time you were safe, now, you're almost cheated out of what's yours. Oops, guess what, some people in wheelchairs come and get in front of you and you're at 99.