It is very common for "newbies" to get beat up here.... So the best defense to the rude responses is to learn how to use the search function and find the answers you need without actually asking them..There is a wealth of knowledge in this forum....
PS....Youtube is also a great resource.....
It's actually a lot less common than you think. The overwhelming percentage of new member posts are greeted with welcoming responses ... largely because the new member provides some indication of their experience and background. The primary reason rudeness seems to happen is when the new member makes a post containing information that brings his or her sign industry status into question.
If everyone followed your advice, Signs 101 would be a ghost town by comparison. The whole idea with an online community is to participate ... not lurk. The reality is that Signs 101 is intended for professional sign people seeking to exchange ideas and find solutions in their efforts to earn their livings. It is specifically not intended to fill the role that the seller of the hardware, software or supplies to a non-professional should be filling.
So when someone joins who doesn't meet our criteria for membership and by whatever means manages to be approved, OR APPEARS TO HAVE DONE SO, it is more than appropriate for any member to call the new member out or respond to them in the negative. This is what any non-member sees at the top of every page when they come to Signs 101:
Notices
Welcome to Signs 101! We are a community of professional sign makers and others interested in our craft. If you are, once were, or want to be a professional sign maker, we invite you to join us. If you are a supplier to our craft, a teacher or student interested in the craft, or a member of a related craft, trade or profession, we also invite you to join us. Registering will allow you to post, view images and search our archives.
If you are making or are seeking to make signs and graphic products for your own needs, you have entered a community where you are not welcome. Please do not attempt to register.
Is this not clear enough?
We process 20 to 30 new member registrations a day. Most are from legitimate sign companies or others who meet our criteria. Some are obviously not. And some are difficult to tell or not truthfully filled out. This last group is where most of the problems occur. Unfortunately we sometimes can't tell this until the new member starts posting.
So, to anyone reading this who agrees with our membership requirements and policies, that is why this happens from time to time. And to anyone reading this who disagrees with our membership requirements and policies, there really isn't anything I can say to you except to deal with it because it isn't going to change.