let him take you to court. when your wife gets on the stand, she can say how he was overly preoccupied and inappropriate with her. END OF STORY!!!
speaking as a landlord, our house in sarasota had a "mother in-law cottage" on the property so we rented it for the 12 years we lived there. paid half of the mortgage payment. i was always selective about who rented. and outa all the tenants i had one bozo!!! i knew it would be a problem, and the guys boss was puttin up any moneys to get his employee somewhere close to work so he didnt have to drive. i think he had gotten a DUI, and i knew he had a drinking problem. well, the guy wants to bring his dog in the apartment. i told him flat out its gona be a $500 deposit, for him, girlfriend and dog. his boss paid it. was hoping he wouldnt, really didnt want this guy in there. i was right. to get to the apartment, anyone going there had to drive past my house 1st. wasnt long before the 1st time the COPS came in the driveway with lights on. seems he would get drunk slap his girlfriend around, she call the cops then drop charges. more booze, party people and then he started doin crack!!!!! he got arrested for DUI or DRIVING ON CRACK and i told him he needed to start lookin for another place to live..........NOW FOR THE fun part. he moved out, him, dog & girlfriend and all his drunk/drugie friends GONE FINALLY. i went in the apprtment to see what needed done so i could rent it. WELLLLLL.. i pretty well had to gut the place!!!!! dog **** on the rug, left spots. bedroom carpet had blood on it, from him smackin his girlfriend. front door was busted, need neww frame/door as she locked him out one hight so he kicked the door in. we cleaned it all out put in new carpet, new door. found a new tenant. this took 2 months with out rent, and close to $1000 bucks to repair damages. you want a laugh?????????? this bozo had the kuonas TO ASK FOR HIS DEPOSIT!!!!!!!!! you dont want know what i told him........besides telling him i should send him a bill for $500 MORE FOR ALL THE DAMAGES!!!!