Ya know..... all this good stuff took place while I was out last night, but I had more fun drinking, then getting caught up in this drama.
There's a place for dumb stuff and then there's a place for even more dumber stuff. This isn't the place for either of those. Over the years, I've made some bad statements, accusations and have contributed things that I didn't see as off-color or wrong, but when pointed out to me..... for the most part I could see how things were seen through the eyes of others. I've stopped my swearing and since the closing of the
NBH section, I'll probably have no heated arguments left in me....
except for Addie, but as mentioned several times, we should try to act like adults, no matter how boring that is.
Border said it best..... this is Fred's place and we must play by his and the forums rules regardless of our own opinions or theories on right from wrong. If we can't respect one another for certain characteristics, we can certainly respect the owner's house where we all gather and tear it apart every day in and out the whole year long, year after year. If it was me, I'd probably tell some of you to go on a vacation or take a leave of absence from time to time. Y'all get on peoples' nerves after a while.
Sometimes we all forget the rules and need to be reminded of them. It's happened to me several times and I'm still here. There is nothing wrong with getting your fingers slapped or getting called out on the carpet.... it's how you respond or react to such an occasion.
I would hope that John takes all of this in the helpful manner it's meant and reconsider giving back to this community what it needs and desires by not quitting and showing we all have room to grow.
I would never beg someone to come back, but I would like to invite him to think about things and then return to the site once again.
I'll step down for some other windbag...............